![]() ![]() We set a start date for his lock up after that date, he would discover the key holder in due course. His anticipation of the date was incredible he was tormented but also excited. I teased him - maybe it would be my sister, or a friend of ours.He had to wear the device anytime that I was going on a date regardless of what his key holder allowed.I made it explicit that I would not promise that I would keep his secret from my dates. However, at first I did keep the device secret. Who did I recruit for this mission? My neighbor. She was (she moved later) an airline flight attendant and married to a successful engineer. We live in a city with row houses with common walls. We knew that she and her husband had a happy sexually fulfilling marriage - thanks to the common walls. We knew them pretty well and had the occasional dinner. Her husband was a runner and it was obvious that he was in good shape. I confided in her and asked her to be the key holder. She immediately thought it would be great fun. Unfortunately, her husband was not amused and was not willing to participate in any way. I didn’t tell my husband, but simply invited her over for coffee about a week later. ![]() I asked my husband to make coffee for us. ![]() When he brought in the coffee, he nearly jumped out of the room. She took control right away and asked him to sit down and join us. She asked him questions about the cage and his intentions. She made it clear that he was not to interfere in her marriage in any way. There would be no sexual activity of any kind between them except related to the cage. She also made it clear that her husband did not approve and that my husband would have to respect his feelings and live with the outcome. In reality, the key changed the dynamics of our relationship and friendship with our neighbors. By accepting the key, she had a degree of control over my husband. Over time, she exercised it more and more. When it snowed, she would call and ask him to shovel her walk and backyard deck. However, our dinners became awkward her husband lost all respect for my husband and made it obvious. My relationship with them was unaffected and we remained close. But the dynamic with my husband was forever changed. He was now in chastity for much of the time. He was more docile he was more obedient and listened carefully. He learned not to interrupt me (or his key holder). I got more interested in the device and used it for small humiliations. But he loved humiliation, so it was a mutual feeling. Many women complain that chastity devices are fun when there is sex involved, such as when I am meeting my date and my husband is caged. It gets into both of our heads and creates a fun dynamic. But what about the rest of the week which is filled with work and commitments? We had some rules to remind ourselves of his role. For instance, I dressed first for work and he remained naked until I left the house. This gave him time to make my coffee, make the bed and do other household chores. The presence of the cage, made this routine a little more lively. He wore the cage to work, the gym, and walking the dog. Later, we enliven the cage experience more, but that is another story.*I posted this on Tumblr. ![]() It was written to everyone who’d been following me in the year or so that led up to this life-altering day. My boyfriend Mark and I started dating back in 2015. However, I’ve known for a while now that I’d have to at least try BBC once. The toughest part of all this has been figuring out how to tell him. I’d love for him to be a part of it in some way. ![]()
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